Love like any other thing in this world has to be maintained. The moment u stop investing in your relationship the moment decay starts to tear away what u have built. Love is a daily investment, the more u invest in love, the more decay it will take to diminish what u have.You can love many times, love is a choice, but being in love only happens once or twice in a lifetime. When you love you are in control, but when you are ‘in love’ you feel like it is bigger than you are. When you are ‘in love’ you love that person through the good and bad. Falling in love is built my memories and moments that create a foundation, it is not something that just happens overnight.
Are you in love with love? Many people are in love with love and not the person. Are you in a relationship due to the fear of loneliness because you feel that a piece of love is better than no love at all? Don’t allow anyone to fill your emotional void, sometimes the misuse of love can do more harm than no love at all. Giving your heart to the wrong person can hinder you from loving a worthy person in the future. Sometimes we let our present state of loneliness cripple the future that God has planned for us.
Love vs in love, don’t let your infatuation with a person confuse you with being in love with a person. These steps are meant to be gradual, so often we want to take matters into our own hands versus allowing time to take its course.