If we are in the market of house shopping, of course we’re going to have a few houses that attracts us more than others. However, we would not make that purchase without the approval of an inspector. The inspector will tell us about the foundation of the house (the moral makeup of the person). We may want to inspect the moral goals of a person, the person’s view on spirituality, commitment, family values, character, and hobbies.
Our point is, choose a partner based off traits that won’t fade over time. Physical appearance may diminish with age, weight gain, or health. A pure heart, generous spirit, a loyal soul will blossom with time. It is always wise to choose a partner beyond just the things that meet the eye for a long lasting relationship.