I want a Divorce

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What do we want to divorce? We want to divorce selfishness, pessimism, and impassiveness. Divorce means to separate;detach from. We have to detach ourselves from negative thinking and accept that every couple has speed bumps but we WILL get over them.

Our mindset determines our mood, relationship, and our well-being.  So often, we allow our self-centeredness to disengage us from our spouse, our coworkers, our families, or friends. It’s important to consider the impact of our actions and how it has an affect on others. Self-centeredness transcends to not allowing emotions to spill out and be intimate which leads to a lost of expressing affection towards your partner. When someone is self-centered everything is all about his or her desires.”Your not making me happy.”  “Your not doing what I want!” Selfish ways generally leads to a pessimistic attitude.

When we are pessimistic, we tend to view things so negatively that it overshadows the positives in our relationship. Pessimism allows someone to no longer focus on the love, friendship, and camaraderie. The very foundation in which your relationship was built on.  Combat this thinking because often things are not as bad as they seem and you are only a few adjustments away from the love you deserve.

When we are so selfish and allow negative thoughts to overtake our mind we become impassive. Impassiveness is when someone shows no emotion and is uncommunicative. It’s important to express our emotions to allow our chemistry  to flow.  We have to take down the barrier that prohibits God’s idea of love for us.
So let’s divorce negative demeanors and unite with a positive perspective towards our relationship. “Now divorce that!”
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7 thoughts on “I want a Divorce

  1. lenoramoore29 02/05/2014 at 4:14 am Reply

    Love it!

    • Jonathan and Sharnise Horn 02/05/2014 at 4:43 am Reply

      Thank you! Glad you enjoyed our blog. Please scroll to the bottom of page and follow us to get new post automatically sent to your email.

  2. Wish 02/05/2014 at 6:23 pm Reply

    Great topic!

  3. kierae 02/05/2014 at 6:24 pm Reply

    Awesome

  4. Mary Pugh 02/21/2014 at 5:09 am Reply

    Loved it , need more people speaking out on divorce.

    • Jonathan and Sharnise Horn 02/23/2014 at 12:23 pm Reply

      Thanks Mary Pugh! We are trying to touch every topic. Feel free to scroll to the bottom of page and follow our blog!!!

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